Thursday, September 14, 2006
Women....I don't understand them...
I don't know. I'm a woman, but I don't understand them. Actually, no I do...but I guess I can't accept how a lot of women are. I'm so sensitive to people actions around me that the actions replay in my head untill I get to the root of the action. I guess because society places so much focus on physical appearances submissive roles are thought to be ideal and that tends to lead women to view themselves as objects...play things...sometimes just mere accessories that can give you pleasure every once in a while, then women forget to value themselves to the point where they focus there opinions on a man...(who's thought to be superior in society) to feel worth it. To the point where jealousy is viewed more as a female trait, women constantly subconsciously attack eachother and men find this humorous and sometimes entertaining when in his head he knows his absolute value and yet "here are these beautiful women fighting to get my attention just because....I'm...a guy". A man will eventually come to accept this silly perception as...as truth. He thinks it's the truth...and so does the woman...Such is the case in many societies some instances much, much more than others. Is the womanly trait of jealousy more nurture or nature?
When a female stabs a female who's supposed to be a friend in the back because of another guy...nature a nurture?
When a female flirts with another females man just to see if he's attracted to her nature or nurtute?
When a female constantly compares themselves to other females..is that nature or nuture?
Does it depend on how adequate the female feels and what lengths she would go to to feel adequate?
Constantly looking at other females as a threat...is that nature or nurture?
I've been trying to figure this out...my dream is to write a book on this.
7 Deadly Sins of Sisterhood (I got this off the Tyra Show and dashed for my pen)
Betrayal
Manipulation
Judgement
Resentment
Envy
Gossip
Competition
I made a conscious decision not to ever be like that(before I ever saw that show of course) Have I lost my feminine identity? I'm a new breed, not quite feminine...not really close to masculine I'm just....genuine. Sometimes I'll just be walking..in my own little world and some female's with a guy and that disprespectful guy looks at me and that female looks me UP and DOWN as if to say "who is this bitch" and I'm thinking...why don't you turn to that disrespectful man your walking with, the crime is not mine. And I think to myself...Females look at eachother like that on a regular basis...why can't be congratulate eachother...be proud of one another and not detest one another for no reason at all. Maybe throw in a "high 5" every now and then just for the hell of it. The more we respect our selves and eachother the more men will grow accustomed to the respect the less a woman will have to lose herself to feel adequate. Every feature, every material thing, every talent was provided to that person by the grace of god. And if another person has an issue with that, it doesn't make any sense to get mad at that female they need to take that up with God. But they can't because he's the almighty and he provides for different reasons....life is so temporary..in the end we'll understand what really matters....
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I am feeling this message Alli. I think that we do need to stop being each others enemy and start uplifting each other. life is hard enough.
Yeah I agree. Thanks for commenting, just something I had to get off my chest.
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